Nowhere to run

(Another one I wrote for Health24 in 2010 – obviously taken down because linked to a news item in that year. Only, the issue remains painfully current. Let’s hope that fear of Covid-19 has some impact on behaviour.) Why the bleak title?  Well, take the revolting case of the gang-raped schoolgirl (November 2010) – fed […]

Cyberbitches

(This is a column I wrote for Health24 in 2010 – posting here because it’s no longer on the site) Cyberbitchery There are things in the world that don’t have much impact until they happen to you directly, or until they happen to your children. Much has been said about bullying and cyber-bullying over the […]

“Hello, how can I help you?”

There are people who can watch themselves dance and people who can’t (no guesses as to which group I’m in), and I’ve found something else that makes me forget how to function: my voice being played back to me as part of my job 😱 There’s nothing wrong with my voice – if you’re looking […]

“Not all..”

It’s been scratching at the back of my mind, this thing where we’re never allowed to say “Not all…” in response to any blanket statement about men, women, politics – anything involving people. Aside from an obvious allergy to stereotyping (developed growing up under apartheid when all you heard was “all blacks etc etc”), there […]

Long time..

I’ve been avoiding this blank page for more than a year – everybody knows. Even I know. Blame the fact that I don’t get to write in a note-book on a slow train through the suburbs of Cape Town, that I don’t have time to myself – that I’m living the weirdly regulated life of […]

No perfect worlds

The train home got stuck today – not because it was broken, or that the young woman driving it had forgotten how, but due to cable theft somewhere along the maze of lines – she pulled over to make sure we didn’t crash into anyone. Usually when this happens, we’re stuck between stations and we […]

STRANGE TIMES

It feels like I live in such strange times – lately I struggle to find words – it seems like the phrases I know won’t quite cover it. Why? Is is because the phrases I know are outdated and haven’t kept up with the times? No, I don’t think so. It’s more like the times […]